Caregivers Corner: Dementia is exhausting and that affects sleep

If your husband is merely curious about the children he sees, you might reassure him that “their mother is on the way to get them.” If he appears frightened or agitated, react calmly, and reassure him that you are going to protect him. Gently rubbing his back or stroking his hands may redirect his attention to you and reduce the hallucination. If he asks if you see the children, you can respond with “I know you see them, but I can’t.” Don’t tell him there is nothing there; to him, at that moment, they are very real. Acknowledge how it feels, whether it is worried, frightened, or angry.